Divorce statistics around the world is high,
but especially in South Africa. There are many reasons attributed to this, but
this conversation was exploring whether the size of a man’s penis mattered in
the lovemaking process. A huge emphasis we felt was being placed on size and
this placed pressure on many men. No man wants to be made to feel that his is
less than what is “big”. Their ego would be tainted if truth be told when it
came to comparisons.
It was said that females have ways of
establishing this fact. Some say that they look at the size of a man’s shoes, or
glance at the way it is fashioned within his pants. Interesting was watching
the way the females responded in conversation. So the question was then, if
this is so important then why the high rate of divorce? According to statistics,
one of the reasons was due to lovemaking process.
The writing was on the wall, size does not
matter if you don’t know how to use what you have. It was the effectiveness of
the equipment.
Why then do media place so much emphasis on
it? I think that couples and our young
men should be taught that size is overrated. If it were not so, then many South
African men who are divorced, would be
guilty of the size factor and I doubt that is the case.
That's a loaded debate (topic), one which will rage for as long as men and women exist and are required to marry + reproduce.
ReplyDeleteInteresting! I believe if all the small things in a relationship are in place, the bedroom becomes a magical place, no matter what the size is! :) Then relationships become stronger. I also believe men were designed to reproduce so sex is a must for them. Men should master the skill of emotionally supporting a women so the needs of both partners can meet equally when it's time for bed :P Shhhh. Argue if you will.. :)
ReplyDeleteLove that you write on what is regarded as controversial at times...way to go, Keith!
ReplyDeleteThis is a topic that I need to organise a braai with CPUT students!
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