Thursday 5 April 2012

WOMAN CAN’T YOU STOP NAGGING? DID YOU PICK UP THE TRASH HONEY?


We are so different and yet I think that many of us do not understand the differences between male and female. Is it that we just tolerate each other?

Men love to have their abilities recognized and appreciated, and hate to have them scorned or ignored on the other hand, women love to have their feelings recognized and appreciated. They feel rejected when ignored. Men don't rate feelings highly as in their view they can result in wildly unstable behaviour they is misunderstood. Women don't rate abilities highly as in their view they can result in coldly dispassionate, aggressively competitive behaviour.

Men like to work on their own, and exercise their abilities by solving problems quickly and singlehandedly while women like to co-operate, and exercise their feelings through interactive communication with one another. Men value solutions, and view unsolicited assistance as undermining their effort to solve problems alone. Women value assistance and view unsolicited solutions as undermining their effort to proceed interactively. Men desire that their solutions will be appreciated while women desire that their assistance will be appreciated.

The above scenario might not include all, but certainly that difference is there. The question is how will we learn to understand and appreciate it?
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