We
are so different and yet I think that many of us do not understand the
differences between male and female. Is it that we just tolerate each other?
Men
love to have their abilities recognized and appreciated, and hate to have them
scorned or ignored on the other hand, women love to have their feelings recognized
and appreciated. They feel rejected when ignored. Men don't rate feelings
highly as in their view they can result in wildly unstable behaviour they is
misunderstood. Women don't rate abilities highly as in their view they can
result in coldly dispassionate, aggressively competitive behaviour.
Men
like to work on their own, and exercise their abilities by solving problems
quickly and singlehandedly while women like to co-operate, and exercise their
feelings through interactive communication with one another. Men value
solutions, and view unsolicited assistance as undermining their effort to solve
problems alone. Women value assistance and view unsolicited solutions as
undermining their effort to proceed interactively. Men desire that their
solutions will be appreciated while women desire that their assistance will be
appreciated.
The above scenario
might not include all, but certainly that difference is there. The question is
how will we learn to understand and appreciate it?
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